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Bisexuality is fast becoming less though of as a third orientation. Some bisexuals contend that we are all bisexual to a degree. Others submit that it is a natural part of curiosity and most people have thoughts or feelings about the same sex as well as the opposite sex, but do not consider themselves as homosexual. Still others shout from the roof tops that it is the best of both worlds. So if he is attracted to both men and women, does that automatically make him a bisexual?

Not necessarily. The best definition I’ve heard of sexual orientation is based not on who you have slept with, but who you’d like to sleep with. Take it for what it’s worth. It’s also a myth that all bisexuals are just going through a phase in determining which sexuality they prefer to identify with. This is dangerous thinking because it implies that homosexuality is a choice, which the moral majority would have you believe. We know that it is not.

You need also remember that sexuality is like a spiral, not a line. It can change and shift over time. Just because a person is attracted to both sexes doe not mean that they can not have a magnanimous relationship with one person. They have chosen you as a person, not as a sexual being. Bisexuals are often not attracted equally to both sexes, either, although nothing is set in stone-some are.

So what are you going to do about it? Remember that he may not see it himself, or he may be denying it, or confused, or afraid you won’t understand. You need to figure out how you feel about the possibility before you confront him or jump to conclusions that could hurt your relationship. If you have a problem with it, maybe you should look at why. Are you insecure or afraid he will "turn gay" and leave you if it comes out in the open? Honesty in a relationship is the most important aspect of intimacy, and not sex.

If you are with a great guy and have great sex and you love each other, who cares who he is attracted to? He may never act on it, or you may discuss the possibility of him acting on his feelings if it’s out in the open. If it’s true he will probably be relieved.

But what if you’re wrong? If you think he may be bisexual but aren’t sure, you had better make reasonably sure before you ask him about it. If the two of you have been together for awhile, this will probably be easier, but if the relationship is new you might want to check with old girlfriends or mutual friends before you shoot off your mouth. If you are just being easily jealous and insecure because of your own issues, get a grip.

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Strange as it may seem, homosexuality was listed as a psychiatric disorder in the UK up until 1993. Whilst homosexuality has become more widely accepted, embraced and understood over the past 15 years, some people still promote the fallacy of a ‘cure’.

In a recent survey conducted by the free gay dating website Man Central, members were asked if they would take a pill to change their sexual orientation. Lee Martin, a spokesman for the site, explained the reasons for conducting the sensitive research; "In recent years, there have been reports of members of the LGBT community seeking to ‘cure’ themselves through various religious and questionably medical means. Whilst we strongly believe that sexuality is innate, and therefore not something that can or should be ‘cured’, we felt the research would enable the LGBT community to recognise the importance of self-acceptance alongside wider social acceptance."

Whilst 26% of those surveyed admitted that they would take a ‘straight pill’, if such a pill existed, almost three times as many men (74%) had no desire to alter their sexual preference and chose to reject any such ‘cure’.

Considering the improved attitudes towards homosexuality in today’s society, it may be assumed that younger males would be less inclined to covet heterosexuality than those who grew up in a less accepting social climates. However, males aged between 18 and 24 were the most likely to take a pill to change their orientation (37%), this gradually fell to just 13% of those aged 51 to 60.

Consequently, it seems that for the majority of gay and bisexual men, society bears little impact on the individual, whilst self-acceptance develops with age. On the other hand, younger males are more likely to feel anxious to conform to the norm, which may contribute to the higher percentage of 18-24 year olds willing to take a straight pill.

This theory is supported by the comments of several of those surveyed; one member said "I would not take a pill to change my sexuality now because I have the sense and maturity to realise that homosexuality is naturally occurring. But unfortunately when I was a young man, I am ashamed to say, I would have done anything to conform. That is because of peer pressure and religious pressure which led me to believe I was low-life because of my sexuality." Similarly, another member argued, "I would not [take a pill] because me being straight would not be me at all, being gay is who I am and it’s taken me years to become comfortable with myself."

The survey also found that:

16% of openly gay and bisexual men admitted they would take a pill to change the sexual preference, whilst more than double the amount (38%) of closeted men would accept the altering drug. Gay men were the most likely to refuse a ‘cure’ with 79% unwilling to change their sexuality; compared to 66% of bisexual men and 54% of bi-curious males.

Though 1 in 4 of the men surveyed would take a pill to become straight, the research highlights that the majority of gay, bisexual and bi-curious men have no desire to leave The Gaytrix.

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In regards to seducing bisexual women, you need to avoid certain topics. You need to make sure you’re not talking about your daily routine or job. If you’re selling paper for a living or something along those lines and you’re not actually in the show The Office, you’re daily boring life is going to turn off women faster than fast. Make sure you’re not boring the woman to death or else she can simply walk away, and slip through your hands. Conversation is a key door opener for you and your quest to seduce this type of woman, so don’t over do it either. A mistake that can land you alone in your bed is simply by going with interesting theories or outlandish talk about what may or may not be true. This isn’t necessarily religion and politics but more in the realms of UFO Invasion or corruption of the hidden kind. It’s hard to define what turns of women about this, but if they don’t share you’re enthusiasm about these things, you’re going to strike out fast and hard.

When considering seducing a bisexual women you can always compliment them in ways that you wouldn’t normally compliment another woman. Seriously, try something more than just the obvious facial features or hair. Go for something more like, “I like your mind works”,  which would flatter a brainy woman more so than one obsessed with their looks. Compliments are a necessity when it comes to getting passed the initial stages of flirting but too much could send her overboard. Make sure you restrain yourself to not going too far and away with these things and don’t make it seem like you’re grasping at straws.

Over confidence will kill you in seducing bisexual women. Do not think you’re more than you are, but do not think that reservation about yourself will get you further. Modesty works to a certain extent but a sense of confidence goes above and beyond what you can normally do. Make sure that you don’t get flustered or discouraged when trying to seduce any woman. If she sees you sweating it, she’ll know something is up and recoil rather than melt into your arms. You need to make sure above all else that you do not use your regular tactics in pursuing this.